One of the hardest to maintain standards we have created for ourselves as a society is the standard of monogamy. Glancing around the animal kingdom, we find ourselves in good but sparse company. Aside from a few otters and penguins walking by, it’s a lonely road, and it isn’t made any easier by our biology. Men are hard-wired to spread their seed, and women are searching for opportunities to get the best genetic buck for their bang. So how do we acknowledge this fact without taking for granted the loyalty and affection of a partner? The following tips may help you to keep the spice in your life without fostering insecurity or infidelity.
1. Flirt (Because Committed doesn’t mean Dead)- Chances are when you go out with the girls, chat with coworkers, or even stand in line at the grocery store, you don’t leave your allure behind. It’s perfectly natural to flex your flirty muscles when engaging the opposite sex, and this attention does a great deal to keep your confidence running on high. You can shoot coy looks to a cute guy at the gym without hurdling your treadmill and jumping the free weights to make contact with him. Trust that your partner has the same restraint, and let them know that you don’t expect his hormones to shut down every time you leave the room.
2. Fantasize (Because we’re all Every Woman)- My boyfriend recently made a comment about a woman on TV. My immediate reaction was that I looked nothing like her, and it threw me off guard. My mind jumped to an insecure place, and I wondered if I was really what he wanted. After a moment’s consideration, however, I realized that my very handsome guy is a far cry from my own celebrity crushes. This only proves that we are both alert, sexual beings, and it opens the door for some very steamy nights. If you find your mind wandering, let your lover know. Ask him to assume the role, and play groupie to his inner Jagger. If his mind is stuck on Megan Fox, get garage inspiration, and try out for the part of sexy mechanic. (You can even think of some fun ways to use those oil rags.)
3. Face Yourself (Because you are Number One)- Fantasies are fun, but your relationship is reality, and you are the sex kitten behind it all. A sexy photo shoot, a special night out, or a new nightgown can be just enough to remind your man of a side of you he hasn’t seen in a while. You’re probably what he’s picturing when he has bedroom on the brain, so be confident in the fact that you are worth a fantasy or two. Try wearing your glasses instead of contacts or put your hair up when you usually wear it down. Call him when he isn’t expecting it and let him know that you’re thinking about tonight. You may find that he can hardly wait to get you home.
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